7/27/2009



ERA UMA VEZ...
BIRRAS E LAGRIMAS AOS 2 E 3 ANOS DE IDADE
UM LONGO CAMINHO FOI PERCORRIDO DESDE O BEBEINDEFESO SE TORNAR NUMA CRIANÇA DE 3 OU 4 ANOS, RELATIVAMENTE INDEPENDENTE E PRONTO PARA IR PARA O JARDIM DE INFANCIA. É UMA VIAGEMFANTASTICA DE DESCOBERTA - MAS TAMBEM PODE SER UM PERCURSO POR VEZES DIFICIL PARA SI E PARA SEU FILHO .
A MEDIDA QUE AS CIANÇAS SE APROXIMAM DO SEU SEGUNDO ANIVERSARIO, COMEÇAM A QUERER FAZER PARTE DE TUDO O QUE SE PASSA Á SUA VOLTA - EXPLORANDO E BRANCANDO, OBSERVANDO E IMITANDO OS OUTROS, USANDO AS SUAS PRIMEIRAS PALAVRAS. cOMEÇAM TAMBEM A SENTIR PELA PRIMEIRA VEZ QUE SÃO UMA PESSOA, DENTRO DE UM MUNDO FASCINANTE CHEIO DE OUTRAS PESSOAS, E QUEREM FAZER PARTE DESTE MUNDO.
COMO É TER-SE 2 OU 3 ANOS?

O SEU FILHO DE 2 ANOS ESTÁ A DESCOBRIR TODAS AS COISASQUE NÃO PODE OU NÃO DEVE FAZER, VIVENDO NUMA CONSTANTE BATALHA ENTRE OS SEUS INTENSOS DESEJOS, VONTADES E MEDOS. E VAI SENTINDO CERTAS COISAS QUE NÃO CONSEGUE AINDA MANEJAR SEM SER ATRAVES DE BIRRAS OU CHOROS. A CRIANÇA DE 2 ANOS ESTÁ AINDA A DESCOBRIR QUEM É, E AQUILO QUE SENTE ACERCA DAS PESSOASQUE O RODEIAM E QUE CUIDAM DELE - PORQUE É QUE, AFINAL, AS ADORAM NUM MOMENTO, PARA OS ODIAR LOGO A SEGUIR. E AS CRIANÇAS DE 2 ANOS AINDA NÃO SABEM SIMPLISMENTE PEDIR AJUDA... EM VEZ DISSO, BOMBARDEIAM OS ADULTOS COM PEDIDOS CONTRADITORIOS, QUE APENAS REFLETEM O QUÃO CONFUSO E INDEFESO SE ESTÃO A SENTIR.

A CRIANÇA "MANDONA"

ALGUMAS TEM DIFICULDADEEM SENTIR-SE PEQUENINAS E INDEFESAS. RECUSAM-SE A ACEITAR QUE QUE EXISTEM CERTAS COISASCOM AS QUAIS AINDA NÃO CONSEGUEM LIDAR- E TORNAREM-SE "MANDONAS"PODE FUNCIONAR COMO UM TRUQUE PARA ENCOBRIR ESTA DIFICULDADE E FAZER OS OUTROS SENTIREM-SE PEQUENOS.

POR VEZES CONSEGUEM SER TÃO CONVINCENTE QUE, COMO PAIS, PARECEM QUE NÃO PRECISAM DE NÓS. MAS A CRIANÇA DE 2 ANOS, "MANDONA"E AUTORITARIA, PRECISA MESMO MUITO DE QUEM LHE DÊ AMOR E CUIDADO, MESMO QUANDO PARECE NÃO PRECISAR DELE.

AS BIRRAS DE TEMPERAMENTO

A CRIANÇA PEQUENA LIDA COM SENTIMENTOS MUITO INTENSO AO LONGO DE TODO O DIA. SE ESTÁ A SER CAPAZ DE SE MANTER MAIS OU MENOS ESTÁVEL AO LONGO DO DIA JÁ ESTÁ A FAZER UM OTIMO "TRABALHO"! MAS SÓ É NATURAL QUE HAJA ALTURAS EM QUE NÃO CONSEGUEM SUSTENTAR UM BOM COMPORTAMENTO... POR VEZES AS CRIANÇAS PEQUENAS PARECEM "EXPLODIR", GRITANDO E ATIRANDO-SE AO CHÃO. QDO SEU FILHO SE LANÇA NUMA BIRRA APARENTEMENTE CAPRICHOSA, ESTA A MOSTRA-LHE COMO SE SENTE DENTRO DELE, SENTIMENTOS TÃO INTENSOS QUE NÃO CONSEGUEM ENCONTRAR UMA SAIDA MAIS PACIFICA. PROVAVELMENTE ESTÃO ASSUSTADOS,E ZANGADOS, PORQUE A SUA RAIVA PARECE SER TÃO AVASSALADORA E PODEROSA QUE QUASE PERDEM A IMAGEM BOA DE MÃE E DO PAI. POR VEZES, SIGNIFICA APENAS QUE ATINGIRAM UM ESTAQDO DE EXAUSTÃO OU EXITAÇÃO TAL QUE NÃO CONSEGUEM LIDAR COM ELE DE OUTRA FORMA.

AO CONTRARIO DO QUE SE PENSA, AS BIRRAS NÃO SÃO FEITAS APENAS PARA CHAMAR A ATENÇÃO. AS BIRRAS ACONTECEM PORQUE A CRIANÇA NÃO CONSEGUE COMUNICAR DE OUTRA FORMA, MUITO MENOS POR PALAVRAS.POR ISTO AS BIRRAS TEM TENDENCIA PARA DESAPARECER COM O CRESÇIMENTO, POIS AS ANSIEDADES DO CRESCIMENTO DEIXAM NORMALMENTE DE SER TÃO AVASSALADORAS, MAS TAMBEM PORQUE A CRIANÇA VAI APRENDENDO A USAR PALAVRAS PARA EXPRIMIR O QUE SENTE.

A CRIANÇA NÃO PRECISA QUE ENCONTRE UMA SOLUÇÃO MILAGROSA NEM QUE O 'COMPRE' COM GULOSEIMAS (EMBORA TD GENTE O FAÇA DE VEZ EM QDO!). PRECISAM DE SABER QUE, MESMO QDO SE SENTEM INDEFESOS E DESNORTEADOS, ALGUEM OS PROTEGE DE SE MAGOAREM, ALGUEM CONTINUA A CUIDAR DELES E A AMA-LOS....

BEIJOKAS!!!!

10 comments:

Claudia said...

EU TE DISSE!!
HIHIHIH

BEIJOS

Veronica e Lavínia said...

Olha, Lavínia passou de fase! Não está mais birrenta...então eu digo, acalme-se. É fase mesmo! (pelo menos pro meu lado). E vc lembra que as da minha pequena não eram poucas não..rs

Ah..eu tô preparando a festinha da Lavínia sim. Vai ser lá em casa mesmo, mas com muito carinho.

Bjs

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